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Topic: Timeshare etiquette - Tipping / Leftovers
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annetteterry TUG MemberPosts: 72 From: Twin Cities, Minnesota US Registered: Feb 2003
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posted 03-10-2004 20:50
I'm looking for some tips on "timeshare etiquette" questions. First is it recommended, suggested or frowned-upon to tip housekeeping staff at timeshare resorts (particularly if there is a mid-week housekeeping)? Secondly, is it okay to leave leftover unopened food in the unit when you check out? We stayed at one resort where they have food shelf donation box at the front desk and I thought that was a good idea, but under normal circumstances do you just leave these items behind in the kitchen hoping someone might use them?
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grest TUG MemberPosts: 1570 From: Ocala, FL;, Mt. Amanzi, Place on the Bay, Seapointer, Strand Pavilion Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-11-2004 03:02
Re:food...We throw out anything that is open, and leave anything unopened, offering it as part of the tip, which we also leave. ConnieIP: Logged |
PerryM TUG MemberPosts: 1483 From: Ballwin, MO, Park Plaza in Park City; WorldMark &TrendWest; RCI Points; Windjammer tall ship; SA Registered: May 2002
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posted 03-11-2004 03:56
This is a fascinating subject. We discussed it on the TrendWest chat room when it was alive.My gut feeling is that 80% of the folks don’t tip – no statistics or articles to back it up – just a guess. Do you leave a tip when you stay at a Hilton hotel? Do you leave a tip for someone who does their job correctly? Does the resort leave envelopes with the cleaning crew’s name on it so if you leave a tip it goes to the right person? Do you consider the 6 cans of Coors beer you left behind part of the tip? Did you spend 30 minutes tidying up the condo before you left as kind of a tip – less work for the cleaning crew? If when you checked in there were light bulbs burned out – do you take the inconvenience of calling the front desk to get light bulbs as a reason not to leave a tip, or reduce the tip? That funky smell in the room – is the cleaning crew responsible for it and do you reduce or eliminate the tip because of it? You traded into the resort via II or RCI and will never be back – we really aren’t owners at this resort do we tip? Ok to you were very happy with your vacation – everything was 5-star quality and you want to tip, how much? What is it based on?
You already paid a $50 cleaning fee which is either included in your maintenance fee or a separate fee is the tip based on the $50? I don’t know how much time it takes to clean a 2BR condo top to bottom, say 1 hour for a crew of 1 or 2. I’d be interested in various opinions. Perry
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EAM TUG MemberPosts: 758 From: Registered: May 2001
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posted 03-11-2004 04:47
We normally tip for daily maid service. We sometimes tip at resorts where there is a mid-week cleaning at no additional charge, but we usually don't if the mid-week "cleaning" is only taking out the trash and leaving fresh towels. If we don't see the housekeeping staff all week, we haven't been tipping. However, after my husband read the Barbara Ehrenreich's book, "Nickel and Dimed, On (Not) Getting By in America," he started tipping more generously than he had in the past and we may start tipping when we leave anyway.
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iiderman TUG MemberPosts: 414 From: Bethesda, MD HGVC Seaworld Orlando, HGVC Valdoro Mountain Lodge Registered: Sep 2003
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posted 03-11-2004 05:41
We tip 90 % of the time if we have daily maid service and half the time if we have a mid week cleaning. Sometimes very genererously if it is in a place like the Dominican Republic or Mexico where the maids are working like animals, with very long hours and get lower than minimum wage pay. I usually seek out the maid assigned to our unit at the beginning of our stay and give them a $20 bill and let them know the rest will come on check out day. We get pampered all week long!IP: Logged |
Detailor TUG MemberPosts: 177 From: Montpelier, VT, USA Own: Fox Run Registered: May 2002
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posted 03-11-2004 08:12
quote: Originally posted by annetteterry: Secondly, is it okay to leave leftover unopened food in the unit when you check out?
The unopened food question is one that continually confounds me, too. My wife and I are of different minds on this and it has become a habitual question at the end of every stay. She thinks that we should leave unopened food behind (perishable or not) as the cleaning crew might want it. I think that the cleaning crew probably isn't allowed to take anything home, that this actually creates more work for the cleaning crew than if we just throw things away, and that even if resort management said that it was okay they'd have to carry things with from unit to unit until everything was cleaned making this somewhat impractical. Of course neither of us have ever asked resort management what their policy is. I'd be interested in knowing if anybody has information about policies at resort concerning this type of thing. Dick Taylor IP: Logged |
Hoc TUG VolunteerPosts: 4789 From: Huntington Beach, CA Owner: Club La Pension, New Orleans; Nob Hill Inn, S. F.; Pueblo Bonito, Mazatlan; Allen House, London; Custom House, Boston Registered: Jan 2001
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posted 03-11-2004 08:32
When I stay in a hotel or when I have daily maid service in a timeshare unit, I tip. If I have exceptional maid service in a resort that does only midweek cleaning, then I will tip. Other than that, I don't see why I should.In fact, I was recently at the Village at Steamboat (a Worldmark resort), where the units were cleaned once, before we arrived, and then again after we left. There was an envelope for a tip. I thought it rather presumptuous to expect a tip for maid service we never got. IP: Logged |
modiv57 TUG MemberPosts: 135 From: Fargo, ND, USA, Week 11 and 12 Hotel on the Cay, St Croix, U.S.V.I. Registered: Jun 2003
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posted 03-11-2004 08:42
Perry MIf i left six cans of beer behind, I would go back for it...even if it was Coors LOL. Sandcrab ------------------ "...it's my own damned fault" Buffett IP: Logged |
John Cummings TUG MemberPosts: 2178 From: Murrieta, California Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-11-2004 08:43
We tip housekeeping at a t/s resort just like we do at a hotel. We leave them $2-3 /day that they clean. We also leave food but do not consider it part of the tip. We always tell the housekeepers that we are leaving the food. Some places require a written note from the guest before the housekeepers can take the food or other items.There is no reason why t/s resort employees should be tipped any less than others. ------------------ John IP: Logged |
gwenco TUG MemberPosts: 452 From: Denver, CO 80249 Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-11-2004 09:13
Sorry, but with M/F's increasing every year, I think those are enough so we don't tip. (I'm actually a generous tipper for other services) but just can't justify timeshare tips.IP: Logged |
itchyfeet TUG MemberPosts: 343 From: Sacramento, CA Registered: Apr 2002
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posted 03-11-2004 12:54
I always leave a tip in a hotel or TS. I would say that the housekeeping staff (except management) make little more than minimum wage. I have great respect for people who clean toilets and do other people's dirty laundry to make a living. If I reach the point that I can't afford a few dollars to tip these hardworking people, then I'll vacation in my back yardIP: Logged |
Cat Moderator TUG VolunteerPosts: 3260 From: Now in sunny Florida! Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-11-2004 14:04
I think it's impossible to give one, blanket rule that covers all timeshares regarding if cleaning crews are allowed to take home food that is left. That's why when I check in, I always ask what the policy is. One could inquire as to the policy at any time during the week with a phone call to the office, as well. We have never been told that they can't accept leftover food. We have been asked, at our last stay, that any leftover alcoholic beverages be brought down to the office at check-out time. I don't know if that was because of liability issues, or because the desk folks just like to drink! The desk crew did a happy dance when we brought down 2/3 of an iced bottle of Bombay Sapphire! Killed DH to have to leave it, but I told him to think of how happy he made that lady (she literally kissed the bottle when we gave it to her...) ------------------ --Cat IP: Logged |
lawren2 TUG MemberPosts: 1138 From: New City, NY USA Desert Breezes Resort; Havasu Dunes; Cape Winds 35 Registered: Oct 2002
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posted 03-11-2004 14:31
As a business traveler for many years I had always left a $3/day tip in hotels, however I always left it at the end of my stay. My boyfriend and now DH pointed out that whoever cleaned one day may not be the same as the one who cleaned the next and taught me to leave the money each morning ( if we require something out of housekeeping we also leave a note ). I feel this has made our stays in hotels AND timeshares better. I guess we are rarities as many timeshares we have stayed at have daily service ( trash/towels ) or at the very minimum a mid week in which case we will leave $10. The one and only timeshare that had no services and a list of pre-check out requirements we left nothing. ------------------ Lawren There are many wonderful places in the world, but one of my favourite places is on the back of my horse. - Rolf Kopfle IP: Logged |
Carol C TUG MemberPosts: 2831 From: Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-11-2004 14:42
I always tip housekeeping staff, whether in a timeshare or hotel. When I've got leftover unopened food, I leave it for the maid, usually. In a few instances I had quite a bit of unopened food and used the phone book yellow pages to find the local food bank and donated food there (I did this both on Kauai when staying at the Marriott and on Hilton Head as well). But when I have my own car I pack my food up and drive home with it.IP: Logged |
lawren2 TUG MemberPosts: 1138 From: New City, NY USA Desert Breezes Resort; Havasu Dunes; Cape Winds 35 Registered: Oct 2002
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posted 03-11-2004 14:45
quote: Originally posted by Cat: 2/3 of an iced bottle of Bombay Sapphire!
Oh my goodness Cat! You just brought back some very good memories of some very good people! Although I maintain that Gin drinkers are barbarians some are worth knowing. 
------------------ Lawren There are many wonderful places in the world, but one of my favourite places is on the back of my horse. - Rolf Kopfle IP: Logged |
bigfrank TUG MemberPosts: 4165 From: NY--Orlando International18 French Lick Springs IND7 Brassie Knob Villas GA7 Sky Valley GA 50,3,7,7 Sea Mist Cape Cod5 Flagship,AC NJ38 Telemark,WI 25 Registered: Nov 2001
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posted 03-11-2004 15:58
Funny this thread came up. When we went to Canada we found closed food in the fridge. There was a closed jar of pickels and about 6 pks of vacumed sealed pastrimi and other closed goods. We called the front desk and was told to do what we want with it. Well we did not chance it and it all went in the trash. It was a shame to junk it but I won't chance it.BTW Later I saw the same Pastrami for $6 a pack in the store. I will normaly leave paper goods behind and throw out any open dairy products. I have left fire wood and duraflame logs behind. In a standard TS I leave about $10 for the week. This past month I left $20 at the MP NV Mexico because we had daily twice aday service and they did a good job. ------------------ Where to next ? Check My 18 Rci Journals login big_frank, And do not make fun of my Spelling. My spell checker Theresa was not there when I wrote them. IP: Logged |
happybaby TUG MemberPosts: 148 From: PA Registered: Oct 2003
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posted 03-11-2004 17:17
iiderman I agree with you. We only tip when we go to our TS in Mexico. The maid comes in every day and makes our bed and does our dishes if we don't have them done (we usually do though) For all the times we have gone to our Mexico resort we have the same maid all week and we always tip her. Right again they work for such low wages. Also if you have the bell boy make reservations for you at a restaurant, after he makes so many he gets a dinner for his family. Very nice cause they also are paid very little
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Melanie TUG MemberPosts: 533 From: Birmingham, AL, USA Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-11-2004 17:53
We left in the room of the Manhattan Club recently two huge bottles of liquor (opened but very little gone) and a newly purchased New York cheese cake ($40), which we bought for our neighbors but left in the frig by mistake. I wish I had been the maids cleaning that day! What a bundle of goods. ------------------ Melanie ******************* IP: Logged |
Cat Moderator TUG VolunteerPosts: 3260 From: Now in sunny Florida! Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-12-2004 05:57
Disclaimer for Lawren:I don't drink. The barbarian is my husband. LOL! ------------------ --Cat IP: Logged |
snelson TUG VolunteerPosts: 6520 From: Belly-View, WA. Owner: Embassy Poipu (floating); Winners Circle (Week 52), Raintree Vacation Club; Club Regina Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-12-2004 07:49
quote: Originally posted by Cat: …The barbarian is my husband.
That's what most wives say!  ------------------ Steve Nelson My Seattle Mariners blog ** He gave her a look you could have poured on a waffle. - Ring Lardner IP: Logged |
catwgirl TUG MemberPosts: 483 From: Sacramento, California Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-12-2004 09:33
I always wondered about what to do with the leftover food also. Then when I was recently at my home resort, I saw an elderly woman, part of the housekeeping crew, with a large shopping bag full of eggs, orange juice, butter, etc. She was obviously collecting what was left behind in the refrigerators. Previously I had always thrown away my leftover food thinking I was saving them work. I felt good knowing that if food was left behind it was being put to good use. IP: Logged |
JeffW TUG MemberPosts: 1564 From: Philadelphia Registered: Dec 2000
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posted 03-12-2004 11:41
quote: Originally posted by lawren2: As a business traveler for many years I had always left a $3/day tip in hotels, however I always left it at the end of my stay. My boyfriend and now DH pointed out that whoever cleaned one day may not be the same as the one who cleaned the next and taught me to leave the money each morning ( if we require something out of housekeeping we also leave a note )...
I don't mena to start a new thread, but what are people's thoughts about the best time to give a tip? I guess the traditional time is at the end (of a stay, meal, etc.). Now there is the thought above that maybe it should be done daily, so that whomever does the work gets it. The first time I went to Vegas with my mother in law, at a buffet she gave the tip to the server at the beginning of the meal (either when he/she took the drink orders, or brought them over). Traditionally you reward (tip) a serviceperson after they'd done the service (theoretically giving you the option to tip less if the service was sub-standard). However, I can also see the logic of tipping at the beginning, so you give the server an incentive to provide good service for you, and not think you might stiff them.. What are people's thoughts about this?
Jeff
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Donna Maree TUG MemberPosts: 114 From: Okotoks, Alberta, Canada Registered: Feb 2003
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posted 03-12-2004 18:20
We spent two weeks in Waikiki over Christmas and we were told by the maid that they are not allowed to take anything that is left in the room. It was the hotel's policy.Donna IP: Logged |
BillMorrow TUG MemberPosts: 235 From: Middlebury, VT Registered: May 2001
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posted 03-12-2004 18:41
I travel a lot and always try to tip the housekeeping staff when staying in hotels. However, with a timeshare where there is no service while there, I don't feel the need to tip the cleaning staff.However, this does bring me to something that I have been thinking about for some time. I always feel guilty about leaving food in the unit that other, less fortunate folks (not necessarily the cleaning staff) could use. Last year, in Hilton Head, we left ~$50 worth of not 'immediately' perishable food (blame me, I was the one hit the Costco in Charleston). I would have preferred to take the food to a local Food Shelf, but didn't know of any in that area (still don't after searching the web). Has anyone ever donated their leftover food to this type of organization. I know the staff probably doesn't make a lot of money, but there are always others who are even less fortunate. IP: Logged |
azsunluvr TUG MemberPosts: 812 From: Mesa, AZ USA, Owner: Sheraton's Desert Oasis, Scottsdale Registered: Feb 2003
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posted 03-12-2004 21:51
A few times I've been treated better when I left daily tips at a hotel. At two different places, shampoos and lotions appeared after a day or two of tipping when there hadn't been any when we arrived. At one place we got chocolates on our pillow at night. Our friends staying at the same place did not receive chocolates, but they weren't tipping daily, either. Maybe a coincidence, but who knows?------------------ Kepi IP: Logged |